Actually everybody have instinct to flirt their partner. But there’s tips that maybe can score your flirt. Here it go that what men can do to optimize and make flirting works to attract women.
1.Talk enthusiastic, don’t be nervous, be confident, show what you got. Don’t be one of those guys who bring her down.
2.You must confident but don’t dominate the conversation. Read the situation and her body language. Is she boring about the topic. Watch her carefully to see if she is bored or wants to get away. This helps keep the conversation open.
3.Don’t talk by yourself. Ask questions. This will make conversation more fluid. Sometimes just saying “really?” “what was that like?” will get her to give up more information.
4.Talk about her “hot button”. It means topic that she really like to talk. Everybody’s favorite topic is themselves. Don’t talk only on topic that interest you, then the conversation will only be about you. Talk about her first. When she is ready she will ask you plenty of questions about yourself with lots of interest on her part.
5.Women love if they feel that they are smarter, then get her to teach you. Ask questions, tell her to explain things, get her to demonstrate, and so forth.
6.You are a interesting people so be interesting and spontaneous but get to much because it will scare them. The more you talk about her the more interesting you will be, that’s the real secret. People love talk about themselves. The more you relate to her, the more you talk to her about her fantasizes, and the more you mix it up with some humor the better.
7.Use your body language, it will make conversation more interesting and live.But..if you really enjoy talking to her leaning in a little bit after she has started talking will show her you like what you hear.
8.Adjust To The Environment: Normal conversation is rarely good enough if you are at a party or club. You need some energy, humor, fun, and even be comfortable with your sexuality. If a girl is wearing something that reveals her boobs you might say..”If I didn’t know any better I would think that shirt was designed to get me to look at your boobs.” That sounds almost too forward, but when done correctly you will get a surprising response from her. This sort of thing can help initiate the flirting.
9. Don’t be afraid to disagree. Speak if you want to express your opinion. By this, she will have more respect on you. You just have to do it in the right way.
10.Show some guts. Be a man that she think can protect her and makes her secure. here is nothing wrong with ruffling a few feathers and getting under skin. You can be certain that she will do it to you.